Ramana Maharshi’s Self-Inquiry: Path to Inner Peace & Awakening

Ramana Maharshi’s Self-Inquiry: Path to Inner Peace & Awakening

Ramana Maharshi’s Self-Inquiry: Path to Inner Peace & Awakening

Discovering the Timeless Wisdom of Ramana Maharshi

Ramana Maharshi’s teachings invite us on a profound journey inward, challenging the habit of seeking external solutions and encouraging the exploration of our true selves. His approach resonates deeply with those in search of healing, transformation, and a clear sense of purpose. Maharshi’s core philosophy centers around self-inquiry, particularly through the question, “Who am I?” This post delves into the essence of Maharshi’s teachings and their relevance in modern-day spiritual and healing practices.

 

The Transformative Journey of Ramana Maharshi: From Venkataraman Iyer to Enlightened Sage

Ramana Maharshi’s journey began in Tamil Nadu, India, as Venkataraman Iyer. At the age of 16, he experienced a profound spiritual awakening sparked by an intense fear of death. Through this experience, he realized the eternal and unchanging nature of his true self, leading him to renounce worldly life and seek solitude in the sacred mountain of Arunachala. There, his wisdom and peaceful presence attracted seekers, laying the foundation for his teachings on self-inquiry.

 

Who am I?

Ramana Maharshi taught that the path to self-realization lies in a continuous practice of self-inquiry, focusing on the question, “Who am I?” By tracing the origin of the “I” thought, Maharshi believed we can uncover our true self, beyond the confines of ego and mind. This practice, simple yet profound, opens the doorway to inner peace and a deeper understanding of our divine nature.

Love as the Essence of Being

For Maharshi, love was more than an emotion; it was the very nature of our true self, infinite and boundless. His teachings encourage us to see love as an intrinsic state, a natural reflection of our innermost essence that transcends individual ego and connects us with all beings.

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Ramana Maharishi Quote

“Your own Self-realization is the greatest service you can render the world.”

Overcoming the Ego: Inner Healing through Self-Realization

Maharshi’s teachings emphasize the importance of dissolving the ego to connect with our authentic self. By transcending personal stories and identities, we can release attachment to the ego, creating space for healing and self-realization.

Recognizing the Divine Within: Finding God in the Self

Rather than viewing suffering as something to be avoided, Maharshi taught that it can serve as a catalyst for spiritual growth. By using our pain as a means for self-reflection, we can deepen our understanding of ourselves and move toward inner peace.

Suffering as a Gateway to Transformation

Maharshi’s approach to self-inquiry provides a gentle but powerful method for healing from emotional traumas. By questioning and ultimately releasing the stories we hold about our past, we can find a sense of freedom and peace within ourselves.

Ramana Maharishi Quote

“The greatest error of a man is to think that he is weak by nature, evil by nature. Every man is divine and strong in his real nature.”

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Ramana Maharishi Quote

“Silence is the true teaching. It is the perfect instruction.”

The Legacy of Ramana Maharshi in Modern Spirituality

Papaji, also known as H.W.L. Poonja, was one of Ramana Maharshi’s most devoted students. His encounters with Maharshi had a profound impact on him, leading to his own realization and understanding of non-duality. Papaji’s direct transmission of Maharshi’s teachings, especially the practice of self-inquiry (“Who am I?”), formed the foundation of his guidance to others.

Through his own vibrant teaching style, Papaji inspired and taught many spiritual seekers, several of whom went on to become renowned teachers themselves, such as;

 

Mooji

Mooji is one of the most well-known contemporary teachers influenced by Ramana Maharshi’s approach. He studied with Papaji, who encouraged him to explore self-inquiry deeply. Mooji’s teachings are rooted in non-duality and self-inquiry as a path to realizing one’s true nature.

Gangaji

A direct student of Papaji, Gangaji shares teachings that echo Ramana Maharshi’s approach. She guides people to look within and uncover the peace and presence of their true self. Gangaji’s emphasis on inner silence and self-awareness remains closely aligned with Maharshi’s insights.

Rupert Spira

Rupert Spira, a respected teacher in the non-dual tradition, has been significantly influenced by Ramana Maharshi’s teachings. Spira’s work revolves around exploring the nature of consciousness, often encouraging students to look beyond personal identity. His teachings are known for their clarity and accessibility, appealing to those exploring self-inquiry from both a philosophical and practical standpoint.

Adyashanti

Although not a direct student of Papaji, Adyashanti is heavily influenced by the core principles of self-inquiry and non-duality. His teachings guide seekers to look beyond conditioned beliefs and egoic structures to discover their true essence, mirroring the simplicity and depth of Maharshi’s message.

Byron Katie

Known for “The Work,” a method of inquiry into one’s beliefs, Byron Katie’s approach has resonances with self-inquiry, even though she doesn’t directly teach it in the style of Maharshi. Her method, however, guides people to question their thoughts deeply, which often leads to a similar dissolution of egoic constructs.

 

His influence has been instrumental in spreading Ramana Maharshi’s wisdom globally, especially in the West, where interest in self-inquiry and non-dual awareness continues to grow.

Papaji’s legacy thus acts as a bridge, carrying forward Maharshi’s timeless teachings, making them accessible and impactful for contemporary audiences. Today, Maharshi’s insights are integrated into various forms of therapy, particularly those focusing on mindfulness and holistic healing. His influence extends to psychological practices that emphasize self-awareness, the dissolution of limiting beliefs, and emotional healing.

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Integrating Ramana Maharishi’s Teachings into Daily Life

Being still and asking yourself: 

Who am I?

It is one of the most profound and direct pathless paths to self-realisation.

Watch the film about his life and teachings below. 

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Ramana Maharishi Quote

“There is neither creation nor destruction, neither destiny nor free will, neither path nor achievement. This is the final truth.”

Ramana Maharishi Quote

“Let come what comes, let go what goes. See what remains.”

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Ramana Maharishi Quote

“The mind is a wonderful servant, but a terrible master.”

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Ramana Maharishi Quotes

“Happiness is your nature. It is not wrong to desire it. What is wrong is seeking it outside when it is inside.”

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“Who am I?”

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“Time and space are only mental concepts. The self remains always.”

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“The degree of freedom from unwanted thoughts and the degree of concentration on a single thought are the measures to gauge spiritual progress.”

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Ramana Maharishi Quotes


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“When there are thoughts, it is distraction: when there are no thoughts, it is meditation.”

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“There is no greater mystery than this, that we keep seeking reality though in fact we are reality.”

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“Our own self-realization is the greatest service we can render the world.”

_____

“All that is required to realize the Self is to be still.”

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“The end of all wisdom is love, love, love.”

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Am I a Narcissist?  Self-Assessment Quiz

Am I a Narcissist? Self-Assessment Quiz

Am I a Narcissist? Self-Assessment Quiz

We all have narcissistic traits. Narcissism exists on a spectrum. At its extreme, it’s a disorder characterized by a lack of empathy, an inflated sense of self-importance, and a constant need for admiration. However, it’s essential to recognize that narcissistic traits can also develop in individuals who have been in long-term relationships with narcissists, such as a parent, partner, or close friend. This phenomenon occurs as a coping strategy, where the victim adopts certain narcissistic qualities to survive the relationship or unconsciously mimics the behaviour of a partner or parent over time. 

It’s also crucial to understand that narcissists often project their own issues onto their victims, convincing them that they are the ones with narcissistic tendencies. This projection can lead victims to question their own sanity and seek therapy, believing they are the problem. A well-informed therapist can often identify the true nature of the abuse and help the victim recognize their own empathetic and loving nature, which the narcissist’s manipulations may have overshadowed.

This self-assessment questionnaire aims to help you reflect on your own behaviours and tendencies. Remember, having some narcissistic traits does not necessarily mean you are a narcissist. Empathy, the ability to love, to apologize, and to take responsibility for your actions are strong indicators that you may not be a narcissist. Use this tool as a means of self-reflection and understanding.

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Narcissism Self-Assessment Questionnaire

The more statements you agree with, the higher you score on the narcissist spectrum. 
 

High Narcissistic Tendencies 

  1. I often find it hard to sympathise with people. They have brought their hardships onto themselves. 
  2. I am special and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people or institutions.
  3. I am skilled at manipulating others to get what I want.
  4. I expect special treatment.
  5. I have a natural talent for influencing people. 
  6. I have no problem lying if I have a good reason.
  7. Being able to manipulate and control others is a sign of strength, superiority and intelligence. 
  8. It’s natural that people will get hurt if they stand in my way, it’s called collateral damage.
  9. If people I like start changing, I remind them how they should be and help push them back in line. If they change too much, I cut with them.
  10. It’s okay to bend or ignore the rules if it helps me get ahead.
  11. I feel suspicious of people in general, I don’t trust their intentions.
  12. Should they deceive me, I keep sensitive information about people as a backup plan. I’m not to be messed with, and if anyone disrespects me, I can quickly use blackmail or go into full revenge mode. 
  13. I’m almost always right and find it difficult to admit when I’m not.
  14. I often go into attack mode when I feel criticized or questioned.
  15. My goals are primarily focused on personal success and achievement.
  16. I feel uncomfortable when I am not being noticed or appreciated.
  17. I have many areas where I am way ahead of others. 
  18. I sometimes take advantage of others to get what I want.
  19. People should do things my way to save time and headaches.
  20. I get frustrated when things do not go my way.
  21. I know that I am good because people keep telling me so.
  22. I frequently exaggerate my talents or accomplishments. 
  23. If I ruled the world, it would be a better place. 
  24. I can usually talk my way out of any situation.
  25. I like to have authority over other people. 
  26. I insist on getting the respect that I deserve.
  27. I can read people like a book.
  28. Others are often envious of me and talk behind my back.
  29. I dream about achieving great things and being recognized.
  30. I have no problem justifying my actions, even if they are morally questionable.
  31. I don’t share my deep-seated insecurities and vulnerabilities.
  32. I should not be held responsible for other people’s emotional reactions to my behaviour. 
  33. I think women should be women, and men should be men. I cannot stand this wishy-washy grey zone with unclear roles and pronouns.
  34. Sexually, I prefer intensity above intimacy.
  35. I can use sex to get what I want, to get compliments and attention.
  36. I sometimes use sex (or the withholding of it) as a tool to reward, punish or teach my partner a lesson. 
  37. I want proof of my partner’s fidelity, love, and commitment, so I keep testing it.
  38. I have no issue with conflict. I’d rather get what I want than tiptoe abound others’ feelings. 
  39. Most people are pretty pathetic.
  40. I find the silent treatment to be an effective way to get what I want, avoid responsibility or make the other person insecure and wonder if they have done something terrible. 

Potential Projection

If you find yourself questioning your narcissistic traits due to feedback from a partner or close associate, remember that projection is a common tactic used by narcissists. A mental health professional can help you differentiate between actual narcissistic traits and those imposed on you by others.

This self-assessment is a tool for reflection and self-awareness. For a thorough evaluation and support, consulting with a mental health professional specializing in narcissistic abuse is recommended.

 

How to Recover and Heal

Should you wish to heal your narcissistic tendencies, it’s best achieved through holistic trauma healing (yes, narcissistic personality traits almost always come from emotional trauma) and self-knowledge. 

Our comprehensive ”Holistic Trauma Healing Program” and membership community offer effective help and support. Attending the program will increase your self-esteem, inner calm, and security.

 

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Gabor Maté: Exploring Trauma, Addiction, and the Path to Healing

Gabor Maté: Exploring Trauma, Addiction, and the Path to Healing

Gabor Maté: Exploring Trauma, Addiction, and the Path to Healing

Dr. Gabor Maté stands as a global thought leader in understanding trauma, addiction, and the intricate relationship between mind and body. His life journey, from war-torn Budapest to becoming one of the most influential voices in holistic medicine, has shaped his compassionate approach to healing. This article delves into Maté’s unique perspective on trauma-informed care, his groundbreaking insights on addiction, the importance of childhood attachment, and his impact on modern approaches to mental and physical health.

 

Early Life and Inspirations: How Trauma Shaped Gabor Maté

Dr. Gabor Maté was born during World War II in Budapest, Hungary—a period marked by fear, trauma, and survival. This turbulent beginning profoundly impacted his understanding of trauma’s lifelong effects. After moving to Canada, Maté pursued a career in medicine, driven by a desire to alleviate human suffering. His experiences working with patients in Vancouver’s Downtown Eastside, many struggling with addiction and severe trauma, led him to question traditional medical practices and inspired him to explore alternative approaches to healing.

Maté’s Approach: The Mind-Body Connection and Holistic Healing

One of Maté’s most renowned contributions is his perspective on the mind-body connection, particularly how unresolved trauma can manifest as physical and mental illness. This integrative approach challenges conventional medicine by emphasizing the importance of understanding a person’s emotional and social background as part of their healing process.

Young Gabor Maté in black and white, looking thoughtfully into the distance
Gabor Maté Quote

“The greatest damage done by neglect, trauma, or emotional loss is not the immediate pain they inflict but the long-term distortions they induce in the way a person views the world and herself in the world.”

The Science of Trauma and Stress

Maté believes that emotional stress and trauma—especially in childhood—profoundly shape our mental and physical health. He asserts that unresolved pain, often from early attachment wounds, can lead to autoimmune diseases, chronic stress, and addiction. This insight has fueled a movement toward holistic, trauma-informed care, where understanding emotional pain is essential to treatment.

Addiction Through Dr. Gabor Maté’s Lens: Trauma as the Root Cause

Maté’s work in addiction treatment redefines it not as a failure but as a coping mechanism for deep emotional pain. He emphasizes that addiction is a symptom of underlying trauma, not a disease to be judged or stigmatized. This compassionate, non-judgmental approach has influenced countless professionals, leading to more empathetic, effective treatment models.

Maté often aligns his views with other experts like Bessel van der Kolk, asserting that trauma is stored in the body. He advocates for healing modalities that recognize the importance of addressing both mind and body, including group therapy and community support as powerful tools in recovery. He has noted that programs like Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) benefit from their group settings, which foster shared vulnerability—a key ingredient in healing.

 

Parenting and Childhood Development: The Role of Secure Attachment

In his exploration of child development, Dr. Maté has highlighted the essential role of a nurturing environment and healthy attachment with primary caregivers. He explains that when children trade their authenticity to secure parental love, it can create lasting internal conflicts that affect their emotional and physical health. This perspective aligns with our holistic trauma healing programs, which cite Maté’s work to help clients uncover and heal their childhood wounds.

Gabor Maté Quotes

“Addiction is only a symptom, it’s not the fundamental problem. The fundamental problem is trauma.”

 

Influential Works and Key Resources by Gabor Maté

Must-Read Books by Dr. Gabor Maté

Dr. Maté’s insights are accessible through his widely acclaimed books, which have become touchstones in trauma and addiction studies:

  • “In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts” – A compassionate examination of addiction, its causes, and a plea for understanding rather than judgment.
  • “When the Body Says No” – This book discusses the toll that stress and repressed emotions can take on the body, offering a perspective on how physical illness can emerge from emotional wounds.
  • “Hold On to Your Kids” (co-authored with Dr. Gordon Neufeld) – A powerful book on the importance of attachment and connection in raising healthy, resilient children.
  • “The Myth of Normal” – His latest book, exploring how societal structures contribute to stress and mental health issues, advocating for a more compassionate, health-centered approach.
Notable Interviews and Appearances

Dr. Maté has been featured in many impactful interviews and documentaries, where he discusses his views on trauma, addiction, and healing. Noteworthy appearances include:

  • The Tim Ferriss Show – Where Maté discusses trauma, authenticity, and his personal journey.
  • The Wisdom of Trauma (documentary) – A documentary that brings his teachings on trauma to a wider audience.
  • Conversations with His Wife – In more recent interviews, Maté and his wife open up about his self-reflection in later years, acknowledging the personal sacrifices he made in his family life due to his dedication to his work.
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Gabor Maté Quotes

“The human brain does not develop properly without the right kind of environment, and that environment is defined by the emotional qualities of the relationships that children have with the adults around them.”

 

Psychedelics in Trauma Therapy: Maté’s New Frontier

In recent years, Dr. Maté has been exploring the use of psychedelics in trauma therapy, viewing substances like ayahuasca as potential tools for deep emotional healing. While this area is still emerging, Maté’s perspective aligns with a growing field that recognizes the potential for psychedelics to help individuals access and process buried trauma under safe, therapeutic conditions.

Personal Reflections: How Dr. Gabor Maté’s Work Inspires Our Approach

As a community dedicated to trauma healing and holistic wellness, we draw deeply from Maté’s teachings. His focus on understanding the emotional roots of pain and the importance of authenticity aligns with our values. Through our Holistic Trauma Healing Program and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program, we integrate his principles, creating a supportive environment where individuals can heal from within.

We emphasize that healing requires not only a mental shift but also community support—a sentiment Maté champions. Just as he advocates for a collective approach in settings like AA, our programs also prioritize group work, fostering connection and vulnerability as vital aspects of the recovery journey.

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Gabor Maté Quote

“The attempt to escape from pain is what creates more pain.”

Conclusion: Dr. Gabor Maté’s Legacy and Its Ongoing Impact

Gabor Maté’s work redefines how we understand and treat trauma and addiction, urging us to view health through a holistic, compassionate lens. His teachings are a powerful reminder that healing is a journey—one that requires us to address our pain, embrace our authenticity, and seek wholeness in mind, body, and spirit.

For those seeking to understand themselves more deeply or to heal from trauma, Dr. Maté’s work offers invaluable guidance. His books, talks, and interviews serve as beacons of wisdom and compassion, inspiring countless individuals to embark on their own transformative journeys.

Gabor Maté Quote

“Our most significant challenges are our biggest opportunities for growth and transformation.”

Recent black-and-white portrait of Gabor Maté, looking directly into the camera
Gabor Maté Quote

“The first step in overcoming any kind of situation that holds me in bondage in my thoughts, mind, body, and spirit is to surrender to the power of my higher self.”

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27 Life-Changing Benefits of Making Meditation Your #1 Priority

27 Life-Changing Benefits of Making Meditation Your #1 Priority

27 Life-Changing Benefits of Making Meditation Your #1 Priority

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Meditation, the life changing results of making meditation your priority. If there’s one habit that can transform every aspect of your life, it’s meditation. It’s the foundation of well-being and self-knowledge. It’s the single most effective way to relieve stress, sharpen focus, boost creativity, improve health, and find inner calm. Without meditation, you navigate life through a haze of constant thoughts, anxiety, and exhaustion. With it, you gain clarity, feel more balanced, and access a sense of peace that’s not dependent on external circumstances.

Meditation is like wiping away the smudges on a window—only when it’s clear can you truly see the light of your being and the reality around you. It is through this practice of presence, conscious awareness, and stillness that you come to know who you truly are: your divine essence, unclouded by thought or conditioning. This is not about becoming something new, but rather about uncovering who you’ve always been beneath the mental clutter. It nurtures every aspect of life, bringing clarity, calm, and a deeper sense of purpose to the everyday.

Here are 27 reasons why you should make meditation your top priority every day:

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Mental and Emotional Well-being

  • Reduces Stress: Lowers cortisol levels, promoting a sense of calm and reducing overall stress.
  • Enhances Emotional Health: Encourages a more positive outlook, reducing anxiety, depression, and emotional reactivity.
  • Improves Focus and Concentration: Boosts attention span, clarity, and the ability to concentrate on tasks.
  • Promotes Self-Awareness: Deepens self-knowledge, encouraging mindfulness and fostering self-discovery.
  • Increases Emotional Resilience: Builds a more resilient mind, enabling better handling of life’s challenges and setbacks.

Trauma Healing

  • Supports Trauma Recovery: Meditation creates a safe space to process past wounds, gently bringing awareness to buried emotions.
  • Calms the Nervous System: Helps regulate the body’s stress response, moving from survival mode to a more balanced state.
  • Releases Stored Tension: Allows the body and mind to release tension stored from traumatic experiences, promoting a sense of safety and peace.
  • Builds Inner Safety: Cultivates a sense of inner stability, enabling you to face and heal trauma with compassion and courage.

Physical Health Benefits

  • Lowers Blood Pressure: Regular practice can lead to a healthier heart and lower blood pressure.
  • Boosts Immunity: Enhances the body’s immune response, helping to fight off illness.
  • Improves Sleep Quality: Encourages relaxation, which can lead to better and deeper sleep.
  • Reduces Physical Pain: Assists in managing chronic pain by altering the perception of pain.

Spiritual Growth and Deep Clarity

  • Experience True Presence: Meditation trains you to be fully present, allowing you to step back from the constant chatter of the mind. In this state of pure awareness, you are no longer identified with, entangled in, or believing every thought that arises.
  • See Reality as It Is: When you’re not caught in the web of thoughts and conditioning, you begin to see and experience life with clarity—without the heavy filters of past conditioning, biases, or emotional patterns. This leads to more authentic and grounded interactions with the world.
  • Access Your Core Essence: It is through conscious awareness and stillness that you connect to your true self—the untouched, divine essence that lies beyond mental noise. This journey of self-discovery helps you understand your deeper nature, fostering a sense of inner peace and fulfillment.
  • Free Yourself from Conditioned Responses: With regular meditation, you can break free from automatic reactions shaped by past experiences and conditioning. This opens up space for conscious, authentic choices rather than habitual responses.
  • Deepen Self-Knowledge: Through meditative stillness, you peel back the layers of who you think you are, revealing the core of your being—your inner wisdom, your truest values, and your divine presence.

Cognitive and Creative Benefits

  • Enhances Memory: Improves working memory and the ability to recall information.
  • Boosts Creativity: Sparks innovative thinking by encouraging a relaxed and open mind.
  • Supports Cognitive Decline Prevention: May slow age-related cognitive decline, maintaining mental agility.

Social and Relational Impact

  • Improves Interpersonal Relationships: Promotes empathy, patience, and a better ability to connect with others.
  • Reduces Feelings of Loneliness: Enhances feelings of connectedness to a greater whole, reducing isolation.
  • Enhances Communication Skills: Helps in responding rather than reacting, improving the quality of interactions.

General Lifestyle Benefits

  • Increases Productivity: A sharper mind leads to more efficient decision-making and higher productivity.
  • Promotes Gratitude: Shifts focus to what’s truly important, encouraging a mindset of gratitude.
  • Fosters a Balanced Life: Encourages a holistic approach to well-being, blending mental, physical, and spiritual health. 

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Meditation is like wiping away the smudges on a window—only when it’s clear can you truly see the light of your being and the reality around you. It is through this practice of presence, conscious awareness, and stillness that you come to know who you truly are: your divine essence, unclouded by thought or conditioning. This is not about becoming something new, but rather about uncovering who you’ve always been beneath the mental clutter. It nurtures every aspect of life, bringing clarity, calm, and a deeper sense of purpose to the everyday.

Lots of love, and may all beings everywhere be happy, peaceful, and free.  

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Embracing Menopause: The Liberation of a Woman’s True Power

Embracing Menopause: The Liberation of a Woman’s True Power

Embracing Menopause: The Liberation of a Woman’s True Power

Embracing Menopause: The Liberation of a Woman’s True Power

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For generations, menopause has been portrayed in a limiting and often negative light—a time when a woman’s fertility wanes, and she is cast aside by a society that values youth, beauty, and the ability to give life. Media, culture, and even our collective consciousness have told us that a woman’s worth is intrinsically tied to her ability to nurture and give, primarily through her fertility. But this narrative couldn’t be further from the truth.

In reality, menopause is one of the most powerful transitions in a woman’s life—a liberation, a stepping into her true essence, autonomy, and wisdom. It is a profound initiation into a new phase where a woman retains her energy, connects deeply with nature and her inner wisdom, and claims her rightful place as a sage. It’s time we question what we’ve been told about menopause and rewrite the story to reflect the beauty, power, and freedom that it truly represents.

The Myth of the “Witch”: A Woman in Her Power

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If you look back through history, mythology, and fairy tales, the image of the older, independent woman living in nature—often portrayed as a “witch”—is prevalent. She is depicted as mysterious, dangerous, and someone to be feared or even cast away. But this portrayal is a reflection of how society has long feared a woman who no longer gives in the traditional sense—no longer bound to the roles of mother, wife, and nurturer. A woman who steps into menopause has completed a great cycle of giving—through nurturing children, partners, and communities—and now she reclaims her energy and channels it inward.

This reclamation of power is precisely why she has been misunderstood, feared, and labeled as dangerous. A woman in menopause is no longer tied to the endless cycles of fertility, menstruation, and caretaking. She becomes autonomous, self-reliant, and often more in tune with the deeper wisdom of the earth. This independence has historically threatened patriarchal systems that relied on women’s giving and subservience. Instead of seeing the menopausal woman as “bad” or “a witch,” it’s time we recognize her as a wise elder—a woman who has become whole, untethered by societal expectations, and more in tune with her true self.

From Giving to Retaining: Reclaiming Energy and Power

Throughout her fertile years, a woman’s body is often seen as a vessel for others. Her breasts swell in readiness to nurture life, her womb cycles through phases of preparation for creation, and her energy is often directed toward those around her—children, partners, and society. It’s a beautiful process, but it’s also one that demands a constant outpouring of energy.

Menopause marks the end of this constant giving and the beginning of something truly revolutionary: the retention of energy. With the cessation of menstruation and fertility, a woman no longer needs to give in the same way. Instead, she can redirect this energy toward herself—toward her own growth, dreams, and wisdom. She becomes the keeper of her own life force.

Menopause is not a loss; it’s a rebirth. It is the moment when a woman’s body stops preparing for others and begins nurturing her own power. And when this transition is embraced, it can lead to profound growth, creativity, and spiritual awakening. A woman in menopause is no longer bound to the cycles of giving and depletion. She steps into her sovereignty.

A Deep Connection with Nature and Wisdom

Women who are in tune with their cycles, their bodies, and their wisdom find that menopause deepens their connection with the rhythms of nature. The hormonal fluctuations of menstruation may cease, but a new cycle of wisdom begins—one that aligns with the earth’s cycles of death and renewal, growth and hibernation. This is the sage phase, a time when a woman’s inner compass becomes clearer, and she can offer her unique wisdom to the world.

In many cultures, older women were once revered as wise leaders, healers, and advisors. Their insight was sought after, and they held positions of honor in their communities. Unfortunately, modern society has largely lost this respect for elder women, pushing a narrative that values youth and fertility above all else. But when we look to indigenous traditions or ancient cultures, we see the deep respect given to menopausal women. They are the ones who hold the knowledge of life, who have walked through fire, and who can offer guidance from a place of lived experience and spiritual connection.

The wisdom that menopausal women carry is not only for themselves but also for their communities. It is the knowledge of cycles—of life, death, and rebirth—and of what it means to live in harmony with oneself and the world.

Menopause and the Fear of Losing Value

One of the greatest fears that women face as they approach menopause is the fear of losing value. Society has placed so much emphasis on fertility, youth, and beauty that many women feel that their worth is tied to these external markers. The beauty industry capitalizes on this fear, encouraging women to resist aging at all costs, to strive to look young, sexy, and fertile, even when their bodies are naturally transitioning into a new phase of life.

But this fear is rooted in a misunderstanding of what truly makes a woman valuable. Fertility is just one phase of life—it is not the totality of a woman’s existence. A woman’s value is not diminished by age or the end of her fertility; in fact, it is enhanced by the wisdom, strength, and independence she gains in this new phase of life.

We must shift the narrative. Menopause should be seen not as the end of a woman’s value, but as a gateway to freedom—freedom from the expectations of others, freedom from the cycles of giving, and freedom to fully embrace her own power. In many cultures, elders are seen as the most valuable members of society, the ones who hold the key to knowledge and guidance. When we reconnect with this wisdom, we can reclaim the deep respect and reverence that menopausal women deserve.

The Liberation of Menopause: Freedom from Expectations

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I remember 25 years ago in a rural area in Bali (I was looking into living there at that time) I became aware of a beautiful tradition that some women still embraced. After menopause, they removed their bras and went topless, embracing their bodies in their natural state. For them, it’s an act of liberation—a way of saying, “I have done my duty as a mother and wife. I am no longer here to be seen as a sexual object or a giver of nourishment. Now, I am free to be fully myself.”  But it was also deeper than that, before colonization, they were all topless as  breasts were not sexualised (the woman’s neck was).

Before Dutch colonization in the early 20th century, it was common for Balinese women to walk around topless as part of their traditional attire, particularly in rural areas. This was not considered improper or unusual in Balinese culture. Their toplessness was a reflection of the island’s climate and a natural, accepted part of everyday life.

However, when the Dutch began to establish control over Bali, they introduced European standards of modesty, which frowned upon public nudity, including women being topless. This cultural imposition led to the gradual covering up of Balinese women, particularly in public spaces. The Dutch colonial administration, along with Christian missionaries, played a significant role in promoting Western norms of decency and dress.

Over time, these external pressures, combined with the growing influence of global tourism and modernization, contributed to lasting changes in Balinese customs regarding dress. The shift can be seen as part of a larger pattern of colonial powers imposing their cultural norms on indigenous populations. 

This act can be seen as a statement of autonomy, independence, and resistance to the ongoing effects of colonization on Balinese culture. It represents a reclaiming of the body and the natural state of being, while rejecting the external pressures that have historically sought to control and dictate women’s appearance and behavior. Thus, in this context, it becomes a powerful expression of both personal and cultural liberation.

Across the world, various cultures have experienced similar dynamics where colonial or external forces imposed new standards of dress, behavior, or modesty, leading to acts of resistance or reclaiming of traditional practices. Here are a few examples:

1. Breastfeeding in Public – Africa

In many African cultures, particularly in rural areas, breastfeeding in public was traditionally accepted and seen as natural. However, with European colonization and the spread of Western norms, public breastfeeding began to be stigmatized in some regions. Today, some African women and activists are reclaiming the practice as a way of resisting imposed Western notions of modesty and reconnecting with their cultural roots. Movements advocating for the normalization of breastfeeding in public can be seen as a modern reclaiming of autonomy over their bodies and a rejection of colonial-era shame.

2. The Hawaiian Hula Reclamation

In Hawaii, the traditional hula dance was banned by Christian missionaries in the 19th century due to its perceived “indecency.” Hula was considered too sensual, particularly with the way women dressed and moved. However, in the 1970s, during the Hawaiian Renaissance, there was a powerful movement to reclaim hula and other traditional practices as part of native Hawaiian identity and pride. Today, hula is not only a cultural expression but also an act of resistance and a rejection of the suppression imposed by colonization.

3. Indigenous Dress in Latin America

In various Latin American countries, particularly among indigenous communities, traditional clothing was discouraged or outright banned by colonial powers. In Bolivia, for example, indigenous women known as “cholitas” were pressured to adopt Western-style clothing during colonial times, and wearing their traditional pollera skirts and bowler hats became associated with lower social status. However, in recent years, many women have reclaimed these traditional outfits as a symbol of pride and resistance, with cholitas now often proudly wearing their traditional clothing and even participating in cholita wrestling, a sport that empowers these women through their cultural identity.

4. Indigenous Australian Resistance to Colonial Dress Codes

Before British colonization, Indigenous Australians lived semi-naked, adapting their attire to their environment. Colonizers, particularly missionaries, imposed European clothing on indigenous peoples, associating nudity or traditional attire with “savagery.” In the 1960s and 70s, as part of the broader indigenous rights movement, there was a reclaiming of traditional practices, including elements of dress and body paint, which had been suppressed. This was an assertion of cultural identity and autonomy in the face of continued colonial influence.

5. First Nations and Inuit Clothing in Canada

Inuit and First Nations peoples in Canada traditionally wore fur and hide clothing suitable for the harsh climates of the Arctic and sub-Arctic. However, with colonization, there was pressure to adopt Western-style clothing. As part of cultural reclamation movements in recent years, indigenous communities are reintroducing traditional clothing as a way of asserting their identity, reconnecting with traditional ways of life, and rejecting the erasure of their culture. This reclaiming extends to the beading and fur-trimmed parkas, which are both functional and symbolic of indigenous pride and resistance to colonial assimilation.

6. Nudity in Native American Ceremonies

In some Native American cultures, nudity was a natural part of certain spiritual ceremonies and rites of passage. Colonial European settlers and missionaries, however, imposed strict dress codes and associated nudity with immorality. Today, some Native American communities are reclaiming their traditional ceremonies, including aspects of dress and nudity, as a form of cultural preservation and resistance against the centuries of imposed Christian and colonial norms.

7. The Hijab and Veil Debate in Muslim Cultures

In countries like Iran and Turkey, the wearing of the hijab or veil has been a symbol of both resistance and imposition at different times in history. During periods of Westernization in the 20th century, such as under Turkey’s Atatürk or Iran’s Shah, there were laws banning traditional Islamic dress, including the veil, as part of modernization efforts. In response, many women resisted these impositions by continuing to wear the veil as a symbol of cultural and religious identity. The complex politics surrounding the hijab today, in both Western and Muslim-majority countries, reflects the ongoing tension between personal freedom, cultural identity, and external pressures, whether they come from colonial powers or local governments.

8. Pacific Islander Tattoo Traditions

In Polynesian cultures, traditional tattoos (such as tā moko in Māori culture and pe’a in Samoa) were central to cultural identity, status, and spirituality. European missionaries discouraged or outright banned tattooing during the colonial era, associating it with “heathen” practices. Today, Polynesians are reclaiming their tattoo traditions as symbols of pride and resistance to colonization. Getting traditional tattoos is now seen as a way of reconnecting with their ancestors and asserting cultural identity in the face of ongoing Western influence.


Pre Christian Europe

In Europe, many pre-Christian traditions, including those of the pagans, druids, and Vikings, were similarly subject to repression by the rise of Christianity and the imposition of new moral and societal norms. These ancient cultures had a deep connection with nature, reverence for the cycles of life, and a more fluid understanding of the body and spirituality. The transition to Christianity across Europe, often accompanied by force and colonization, resulted in the demonization and suppression of many of these beliefs and practices. Here’s a deeper look into how these European traditions were affected and how elements of them are being reclaimed today:

9. Pagan Traditions and Reverence for Nature

Pre-Christian Europe was predominantly pagan, with various tribes and cultures worshipping nature gods and goddesses, the sun, the moon, and the earth itself. In these cultures, there was often a deep reverence for women, fertility, and the cycles of life and death. Female deities, like the Celtic Brigid or the Norse Freyja, were central to spiritual life.

  • Women as spiritual leaders: Many pagan societies revered women as priestesses, healers, and spiritual leaders, often associating them with wisdom, the moon, and nature’s regenerative powers. This role was dramatically diminished with the rise of Christianity, which often portrayed women as sinful or in need of control. Many of the women once seen as healers were later labeled witches or heretics.

  • Sacred groves and natural spaces: Druids and other pagan groups often worshipped in natural spaces, such as forests, groves, and rivers, seeing these areas as sacred. The destruction of these sacred places and the building of churches over them were common tactics used by early Christian missionaries to replace the old religions with Christianity.

In recent decades, there has been a resurgence of neo-pagan movements, such as Wicca and Druidry, which reclaim this deep connection to nature and ancient traditions. For many, this reclamation is about reestablishing harmony with the earth and honoring the cycles of life and death in ways that feel more aligned with their ancestral roots.

10. Druids and the Wisdom of the Sacred

The Druids were the priestly class of the Celts, renowned for their deep spiritual knowledge, their connection with nature, and their role as mediators between the material world and the spiritual realm. They were particularly associated with sacred oak trees and natural places of worship, such as stone circles and groves.

  • Repression by the Romans and Christians: The Druids were systematically oppressed by both the Romans and later by Christian missionaries. Romans considered Druidic practices a threat to their rule, particularly their influence over the Celtic tribes. After the Christianization of Europe, Druidic beliefs were further demonized, their wisdom often reinterpreted as dark magic or witchcraft.

  • Reclaiming Druidic traditions: In the 20th century, the Druid revival began, with groups like the Order of Bards, Ovates, and Druids (OBOD) emerging to reclaim and revive Druidic spirituality. These modern Druids emphasize a connection to nature, seasonal cycles, and ancient wisdom, representing a spiritual reconnection to pre-Christian roots.

11. Viking Traditions: The Norse Gods and Feminine Power

The Vikings, or Norse people, held deep-rooted spiritual beliefs centered around the Aesir and Vanir gods, such as Odin, Thor, Freyja, and Frigg. Their society, while often perceived as patriarchal, had important roles for women, especially in spiritual and domestic spheres. The Völva, a female shaman or seeress, held great power in Viking society, communicating with spirits and offering prophecy.

  • Viking women and their autonomy: Norse women, particularly those who followed the path of the Völva, were respected for their spiritual knowledge. They were often associated with seiðr, a form of Norse magic or shamanism that involved chanting, ritual, and trance. Völvas were highly influential in their societies, offering guidance and foretelling the future. However, after the Christianization of Scandinavia, many of these traditions were suppressed, and female spiritual power was demonized.

  • The conversion to Christianity: The Christianization of Scandinavia was a slow and often violent process, with the old gods and rituals eventually demonized. Women who practiced seiðr were labeled witches, and many aspects of Norse spirituality were suppressed or altered to fit Christian narratives.

  • Reclamation of Norse spirituality: Today, the Ásatrú movement, a modern revival of Norse paganism, is growing in popularity, particularly in Scandinavia, Iceland, and North America. For some, reclaiming Norse spirituality is a way of connecting with their Viking ancestors, while for others, it represents resistance against the erasure of indigenous European spirituality. The resurgence of interest in figures like the Völva also reflects a desire to reconnect with the feminine aspects of Norse belief, which were once central to Viking society.

Witchcraft and the Demonization of Female Power in Europe

As Christianity spread across Europe, women’s spiritual roles were often suppressed or reinterpreted as evil. The witch hunts of the late medieval and early modern periods are the most infamous example of how women’s power—whether as healers, midwives, or spiritual leaders—was targeted.

  • The “witch” archetype: Many of the women who were labeled as witches were practicing traditions that had been handed down for generations—healing with herbs, leading community rituals, or acting as spiritual guides. These roles, deeply respected in their pre-Christian communities, became vilified in the context of Christianity. This demonization was often a result of the church’s fear of women’s power, particularly those who operated outside the patriarchal structures.

  • Reclaiming the witch: In modern times, the figure of the “witch” has been reclaimed by many women as a symbol of feminine power, resistance, and autonomy. Movements like Wicca and other forms of modern paganism have restored the idea of the “witch” as a healer, a wise woman, and a protector of ancient wisdom. This reclaiming of the witch’s role is a rebellion against centuries of repression and an assertion of spiritual and bodily autonomy.

Ritual Nudity and Body Autonomy in Pagan Europe

In many pagan European cultures, ritual nudity was a normal and often spiritually significant practice. Being unclothed in sacred rituals or festivals symbolized purity, freedom, and a connection to nature. For example, in some Druidic rituals, being unclothed while performing certain rites was believed to allow participants to draw closer to the spiritual world, unencumbered by material things.

  • The suppression of nudity: As Christianity spread across Europe, nudity, especially for women, became associated with sin, shame, and immorality. Traditional rites that involved nudity were banned, and strict dress codes were enforced. Women’s bodies became more controlled, both physically and spiritually, by these new religious structures.

Conclusion

In all these examples, we see a common theme: the imposition of external (often Western, Christian and Colonial..in some cases also the Islamic religion) norms on indigenous or local practices, particularly around issues of body autonomy, modesty, and dress, but also trying to sever the connection with nature, our innate wisdom and intuition and imprison and dilute the sacred feminine energy. 

The act of reclaiming traditional practices—whether it’s removing a top, embracing indigenous clothing, or practicing ancient rites—becomes a powerful form of resistance against cultural suppression. These acts are not only about reconnecting with one’s cultural heritage but also about asserting autonomy and identity in the face of historical and ongoing colonization.

NO FUCKS TO GIVE: This is the power of menopause. It is the shedding of roles, expectations, and societal pressures. A woman in menopause steps into her truth, no longer needing to conform to anyone’s idea of who she should be. She no longer feels the pressure to nurture others, to maintain the image of youth, or to fit into the mold that society has created for her.

Instead, she becomes whole unto herself. She becomes a woman of power, a woman of wisdom, a woman who is deeply connected to her own nature and to the earth. She is liberated from the need for external validation and embraces her autonomy with grace and confidence.

Reclaiming Menopause as an Empowering Rite of Passage

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It’s time to rewrite the story of menopause, to reclaim it as a sacred and empowering rite of passage. We must challenge the outdated narratives that have diminished the value of menopausal women and instead celebrate the incredible wisdom and strength that this phase brings.

Menopause is not the end—it is a powerful new beginning. It is a time of liberation, autonomy, and the deepest connection to one’s inner wisdom. It is a transition into the role of the sage, where a woman’s value is no longer tied to what she gives to others but to the profound wisdom she holds within.

Let us honor the power of menopause and the women who walk through this transition with grace, wisdom, and strength. May we look to them for guidance, respect their autonomy, and celebrate the liberation that comes with this new phase of life.


How to Lessen the Challenging Symptoms of Menopause

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Menopause is a natural transition in a woman’s life, but it can come with a range of challenging symptoms such as hot flashes, mood swings, sleep disturbances, and changes in energy. While menopause is a powerful transformation, there are many ways to ease the difficult symptoms and make the journey more manageable. Below are some holistic and practical approaches to help lessen the intensity of menopausal symptoms:

1. Balance Your Diet

Diet plays a key role in managing menopausal symptoms. Incorporating nutrient-dense foods can help regulate hormones, reduce hot flashes, and maintain energy levels.

  • Phytoestrogen-rich foods: These are plant-based compounds that mimic estrogen and can help ease hot flashes and hormonal imbalances. Foods like flaxseeds, soy products (tofu, tempeh), chickpeas, and lentils are rich in phytoestrogens.
  • Calcium and Vitamin D: Bone health becomes crucial during menopause due to the decline in estrogen, which can lead to bone density loss. Consume foods rich in calcium (leafy greens, almonds, sesame seeds) and ensure adequate Vitamin D intake (through sunlight or supplements).
  • Healthy fats: Omega-3 fatty acids, found in salmon, chia seeds, and walnuts, help reduce inflammation, ease mood swings, and improve heart health, which is essential as cardiovascular risks increase post-menopause.
  • Hydration: Drink plenty of water to help manage hot flashes, which can dehydrate the body.

2. Herbal Supplements and Remedies

Certain herbs have been traditionally used to balance hormones and reduce menopausal symptoms:

  • Black Cohosh: One of the most widely researched herbs for menopause, Black Cohosh helps reduce hot flashes, night sweats, and mood swings.
  • Red Clover: Rich in phytoestrogens, red clover may reduce hot flashes and promote heart health.
  • Ashwagandha: Known as an adaptogen, Ashwagandha can help with mood stabilization, reduce anxiety, and improve sleep.
  • Dong Quai: A traditional Chinese herb, Dong Quai is used to balance estrogen levels and reduce hot flashes and night sweats.
  • Valerian Root: Helpful for those who struggle with insomnia, Valerian root promotes relaxation and better sleep.

Always consult with a healthcare provider before starting herbal supplements to ensure they’re right for you.

3. Exercise Regularly

Physical activity is vital for managing both the physical and emotional symptoms of menopause. Regular exercise helps to:

  • Boost mood: Exercise increases serotonin and endorphin levels, which can reduce anxiety, depression, and mood swings.
  • Regulate body temperature: Regular physical activity can help regulate your body’s ability to handle temperature changes, potentially reducing the severity of hot flashes.
  • Support heart health: Post-menopause, the risk of cardiovascular disease increases, so incorporating cardio exercises like walking, swimming, or cycling can support heart health.
  • Strength training: Building muscle mass through weightlifting or resistance exercises helps maintain bone density and strength, reducing the risk of osteoporosis.
  • Improve sleep: Regular exercise helps reduce insomnia and improve the quality of sleep, which is often disrupted during menopause.

4. Manage Stress

Stress management is critical during menopause, as elevated stress levels can worsen symptoms such as hot flashes, mood swings, and insomnia. Consider incorporating these stress-relief practices into your routine:

  • Mindfulness and meditation: Regular meditation practices can help reduce anxiety, improve emotional balance, and calm the nervous system.
  • Yoga: Yoga not only improves flexibility and strength but also helps with mental relaxation and deep breathing, which can reduce hot flashes and promote better sleep.
  • Breathing exercises: Practices like deep belly breathing or alternate nostril breathing can help calm your mind and regulate body temperature, reducing the frequency and intensity of hot flashes.
  • Journaling: Expressing emotions and thoughts through journaling can provide a release and reduce emotional turbulence during this time.

5. Sleep Hygiene

Insomnia and disrupted sleep are common symptoms during menopause, but improving your sleep hygiene can make a big difference:

  • Establish a routine: Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day, creating a rhythm that helps your body adjust.
  • Create a relaxing bedtime ritual: Unwind with calming activities like reading, taking a warm bath, or practicing gentle stretching or meditation.
  • Limit caffeine and alcohol: Both can trigger hot flashes and disrupt sleep, so it’s wise to reduce your intake, especially in the evening.
  • Cool down: Keep your bedroom cool and use breathable, light bedding to help prevent overheating during the night.

6. Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT)

For women experiencing severe symptoms, Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) can be an option. HRT involves taking synthetic estrogen or a combination of estrogen and progesterone to supplement the body’s decreasing hormone levels.

  • Benefits: HRT can effectively reduce hot flashes, night sweats, vaginal dryness, and mood swings.
  • Considerations: There are potential risks associated with HRT, including an increased risk of blood clots, stroke, and breast cancer. Always consult your doctor to assess if it’s the right option for you.

7. Acupuncture

Acupuncture has been shown to help reduce menopausal symptoms, particularly hot flashes and mood swings. This ancient Chinese practice balances the body’s energy flow and has a calming, restorative effect on the nervous system.

  • How it helps: Acupuncture can help with stress relief, insomnia, and even the hormonal balance needed to ease hot flashes.

8. Support Bone Health

Estrogen plays a significant role in maintaining bone density, so when its levels drop during menopause, bones can become more fragile. To protect your bones:

  • Calcium and Vitamin D: Ensure adequate intake of these essential nutrients. Consider supplements if dietary intake is insufficient.
  • Weight-bearing exercises: Activities like walking, hiking, and resistance training help maintain bone strength.
  • Avoid smoking and limit alcohol: Both can reduce bone density and weaken bones over time.

9. Stay Connected and Embrace Community

Menopause can sometimes feel isolating, but it doesn’t have to be. Sharing experiences with other women who are going through the same journey can provide emotional support and reduce feelings of loneliness. Look for:

  • Support groups: Online or local groups where you can discuss symptoms, remedies, and experiences.
  • Trusted friends or mentors: Open conversations about menopause can help normalize the experience and make it easier to navigate.

10. Embrace the Power of This Transition

One of the most powerful things you can do during menopause is to shift your mindset. Rather than seeing it as an ending, menopause can be embraced as a profound liberation—a time to reconnect with your own wisdom, reclaim your energy, and step into a new phase of life with autonomy and power. This perspective alone can lessen the emotional challenges of menopause, reducing anxiety about aging and helping you see this phase as a beautiful, natural evolution.


Making Menopause Easier

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By approaching menopause with a holistic mindset, you can ease the symptoms and make this transition as smooth as possible. A combination of the right diet, herbs, exercise, stress management, and community support can significantly improve the experience. Remember that menopause is not just an ending; it’s the beginning of a new chapter where you can reclaim your energy, step into your wisdom, and fully embrace the power of your autonomy.

Embrace this time, and let it be a journey of liberation, empowerment, and renewal.

I’ve talked with many women who have made the transition, and their experiences are widely different. However, I do notice patterns: the women who consciously look after their holistic well-being tend to feel a lot more empowered, happy and free during the transition than our fellow sisters who carry heavy emotional trauma, are stressed, don’t look after their bodies and resist growing old. I’m 50 now and my cycle is still regular, so I do not talk from personal experience, but I will in the future. This is also a form of preparation for me, learning about it and reframing it as an empowering new beginning rather than the end. 

Lots of love

Ami

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The Unseen Battle of the Empath

The Unseen Battle of the Empath

The Unseen Battle of the Empath

The Unseen Battle of the Empath: Navigating Trauma, Relationships, and Spiritual Awakening

Have you ever felt completely drained after a simple conversation? Or have you found yourself overwhelmed in crowded places, picking up on emotions and energies that don’t belong to you? If so, you might be an empath, and though it can be a superpower at times, being an empath comes with its own set of struggles that often go unseen.

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What is an Empath?

An empath is someone who deeply feels the emotions, energies, and even physical sensations of others as if they were their own. While most people have some degree of empathy, an empath experiences this on an intense and often overwhelming level. It’s more than understanding someone’s emotions—it’s embodying them. 

Empaths are naturally tuned into the emotional landscape around them, which can make them exceptional friends, partners, and healers. However, this heightened sensitivity also brings challenges, particularly when it comes to navigating trauma, relationships, and their spiritual journey. 

Empaths can quickly become co-dependent, people pleasers, and suffer the “good girl syndrome” or the “white knight syndrome” if living with unhealed emotional trauma, not having clear boundaries or being grounded. It’s when the empath puts other people’s discomfort, suffering, needs and wants before their own that it becomes problematic.  

The Struggle with Trauma

One of the most significant struggles for empaths is their relationship with trauma—both their own and that of others. Empaths often attract individuals who are emotionally wounded or dealing with unresolved pain. Because of their empathic, understanding and forgiving nature, they are also the favourite victims of people with narcissistic personality disorders. They have an innate desire to help and heal, but this can lead to emotional exhaustion and, worse, absorbing the trauma of those around them…or, in the worst-case scenario, staying in an abusive relationship because they feel love and empathy for their abuser, understand their background and pain and feel they can help them understand and heal. 

Because empaths feel so deeply, trauma impacts them in profound ways. They may have difficulty differentiating between their own emotional wounds and the pain they absorb from others. This can make healing and recovery more complicated, as they continually take on emotional baggage that isn’t theirs to carry.

Many empaths struggle with setting boundaries, which are essential for their emotional health. Without strong boundaries, they may find themselves overwhelmed, unable to heal from their own trauma while trying to process the emotional weight of those around them. 

Relationships: A Double-Edged Sword

Empaths thrive in relationships where emotional depth and understanding are present, but this same trait can also lead to complicated dynamics. In romantic relationships, empaths often take on the role of the nurturer or emotional anchor. They sense when something is wrong, even when their partner isn’t open about it. This can create emotional imbalance, with empaths giving far more than they receive.

Moreover, empaths may attract narcissists or emotionally unavailable individuals—people who seek to feed off their compassionate nature without giving back. This dynamic can be deeply draining and damaging for empaths, leading them to feel emotionally depleted, used, or manipulated.

In friendships and family dynamics, empaths may find themselves in the role of mediator or caretaker, constantly trying to maintain emotional harmony. While this may seem admirable, it often comes at the expense of their own emotional needs, leaving them feeling unappreciated or even resentful. 

The Struggle of Breaking Free for the Empath 

For empaths, change can feel like an uphill battle, especially when it comes to setting boundaries and saying “no.” Prioritizing themselves after years of self-sacrifice is incredibly challenging, not just because of their internal struggles but because the people around them—friends, family, partners, and coworkers—often resist this change. The reality is, the selfless, understanding, and forgiving nature of an empath is convenient for those in their lives. To them, it’s perfect that the empath is always available, always giving, and rarely asks for anything in return.

When an empath starts to break free and say no, they’re met with a different kind of resistance. Unlike someone with a visible issue like addiction, overeating, or aggression—who typically receives encouragement to change—the empath faces pushback. Their behavior isn’t viewed as problematic by those around them; in fact, it’s often ideal for others. After all, why would anyone want to lose someone who consistently puts their own needs last for the sake of maintaining peace and harmony? 

This dynamic makes change for an empath incredibly difficult. When they try to reclaim their energy and begin asserting their boundaries, those closest to them may unknowingly (or knowingly) try to push them back into their old patterns. They may guilt the empath into reverting to their self-sacrificing ways or subtly undermine their efforts to set limits. It’s a cycle that can leave the empath feeling trapped, as if they’re betraying their loved ones just by choosing themselves.

 This is why it’s extra important for empaths to seek out support from those who understand their journey, such as other empaths or empath-friendly groups. These supportive environments allow empaths to express themselves authentically without fear of being exploited. It’s within these safe spaces that they can learn to set boundaries, stand up for their own needs, and truly explore who they are without the pressure to always be the caregiver.  

I’ve found that empaths talk with each other, even when they are venting really difficult emotions and sharing their traumatic stories. Because they are not needy or greedy, their sharing is not draining; they don’t steal energy from the other person and don’t expect them to come save them. 

Spirituality: The Empath’s Path to Self-Discovery

On the other hand, being an empath can offer a profound connection to the spiritual realm. Empaths are often deeply spiritual, even if they don’t identify with a particular religion or belief system. Their heightened sensitivity allows them to experience deeper connections to nature, the universe, and even the emotions of others.

For many empaths, spirituality becomes a path to self-discovery and healing. They often seek solace in practices like meditation, energy work, or mindfulness, which help them clear the emotional debris they absorb daily. Spiritual practices can help them ground their energy, understand their emotional boundaries, and discover their true essence beneath all the emotional noise.

However, the spiritual path for empaths is not without its struggles. Many empaths face a constant battle between their desire to help others and the need to protect their own energy. Spiritual awakenings can be intense for empaths, as they may experience a surge in their sensitivity, making it even harder to manage the energies around them. They also need to be extra aware of traditional religious and new-age dogma that glorifies putting others’ needs first, to be self-sacrificing and constantly forgiving and understanding. While it can be beneficial for most people, for empaths, it can be downright damaging. The risk of meeting a spiritual narcissist in the form of a guru, yoga or meditation teacher, priest, shaman, NLP practitioner or personal development coach is significant. They are drawn to spiritual empaths like Gollum to the ring (in the Lord of The Rings).

Empaths must learn to balance their spiritual practices with practical boundaries, grounding and trauma healing to ensure they are not giving too much of themselves away. This balance allows them to thrive spiritually without becoming emotionally drained or losing sight of their own needs.

How Can Empaths Thrive?

For empaths to live fulfilling, balanced lives, they must prioritize self-care, boundaries, and spiritual grounding. Some ways empaths can protect their emotional well-being include: 

1. Set Boundaries: Learn to say no and recognize when you’re absorbing too much of someone else’s emotional energy.

2. Practice Grounding Techniques: Meditation, mindfulness, and spending time in nature can help empaths reset and release emotional energy they may have absorbed.

3. Develop Emotional Awareness: Understanding your emotions versus those of others is critical. Regular check-ins with yourself can help you identify what’s yours to process and what you need to release.

4. Seek Support: Empaths often feel isolated in their experiences. Finding like-minded individuals or support groups can provide a safe space to share and learn from others who understand what it’s like. We are a lot of empaths here 🙂

5. Embrace Your Gifts: Being an empath is a powerful gift, but it requires self-awareness and care. By learning to protect your energy and focus on your own emotional health, you can use your sensitivity to connect more deeply with yourself and others in a healthy, fulfilling way.

6. Heal Holistically: Work on holistically healing your emotional wounds and old and new traumas. If you haven’t already, check out our Holistic Trauma Healing Program and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Programs in the left-hand menu under programs. 

7. Practice Self-Care: Empaths must prioritize their emotional and mental well-being to avoid becoming consumed by their partner’s emotional ups and downs. They must follow their passions, hobbies, and interests, schedule time for me, and look after their holistic well-being. They must engage in practices that nourish them, energise them, and raise their vibration. It would help if they remembered to clean out the bad energies and fuel up with the good stuff. Mother Nature does a fantastic job with that… walk barefoot, hug a tree or swim in natural waters, and you will feel rejuvenated.  

Being an empath can feel like walking through the world without an emotional shield, constantly absorbing the energies of everything around you. But with awareness, strong boundaries, a holistic approach to healing your emotional wounds and a spiritual practice that nurtures you, it’s possible to survive and thrive as an empath. Embrace your sensitivity, protect your energy, and remember that healing begins with you.

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